Boundaries

Healthy limits a person sets about what they will and won’t accept or do in relationships.

In the context of addiction treatment:
Boundaries protect both people in recovery and their loved ones from unhealthy patterns like enabling, controlling, or abuse.

What to know:

  • Good boundaries are clear, consistent, and communicated.

  • Saying “no” to harmful requests is not being mean; it’s self-care.

  • Boundaries can include finances, substances in the home, communication rules, and living arrangements.

Example:
A parent tells their adult child: “You can’t live in this house if you’re actively using, but I’ll help you find treatment.”

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